Covers the session-manager fixes in the previous commit:
- dispose() aborts a dial in flight instead of letting the connector's own
timeout run out before the transport is discarded (asserted by
wall-clock bound, not just by eventual rejection).
- disconnect() during a dial does not let that dial cache a session once
it lands; the manager stays usable afterward.
- F5abort: a losing race candidate is told to abort promptly, proven by
recording when spyConnector's own abort listener actually fires rather
than only asserting eventual disposal (which the mutation's removed
controller.abort() call does not affect, since the cleanup loop that
disposes settled losers is untouched by that mutation).
- F5loser: a losing candidate that connects anyway, past the point abort
would have helped (spyConnector gains an ignoreAbort option to model
this), is disposed rather than left connected.
Replaces the old "fix 4: a connect() that completes after dispose()"
test, which pinned the pre-fix behaviour of waiting out the connector's
full delay before discarding the late transport; that delay is exactly
what dispose() aborting the dial now removes.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
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