diff --git a/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetRudpSchemaServer.cs b/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetRudpSchemaServer.cs
index 3112f07b..de8d0154 100644
--- a/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetRudpSchemaServer.cs
+++ b/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetRudpSchemaServer.cs
@@ -3,6 +3,7 @@ using System.Collections.Concurrent;
 using System.Collections.Generic;
 using System.Net;
 using System.Net.Sockets;
+using System.Text;
 using System.Threading.Tasks;
 using GameCult.Logging;
 
@@ -169,6 +170,9 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking
         /// </summary>
         public CultNetTransportStats Stats => _transport.Stats;
 
+        // The listener this server drives, for tests that inject send failures through its seams.
+        internal CultNetRudpSocketTransportServer Transport => _transport;
+
         /// <summary>
         /// Gets the currently tracked RUDP peers.
         /// </summary>
@@ -283,27 +287,49 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking
             return new RudpCultNetSchemaPollResult(consumed, dispatched);
         }
 
+        /// <summary>
+        /// The goodbye's reason when a handler fails on a peer's message: the server could not handle
+        /// it, which says nothing about whether the peer's packet was well formed.
+        /// </summary>
+        internal static readonly byte[] HandlerFailedReason = Encoding.UTF8.GetBytes("server could not handle a message");
+
+        private static string SessionOutcome(bool ended) =>
+            ended ? "that peer's session ended." : "that peer's session had already ended.";
+
         private async Task<bool> DispatchAsync(CultNetRudpSocketServerFrame delivered)
         {
             if (!string.Equals(delivered.Frame.ChannelId, "schema", StringComparison.Ordinal))
                 return false;
 
             // A peer's message that cannot be decoded (malformed bytes, an unknown schemaVersion) or
-            // handled is that peer's failure, never the poll's: the drain goes on serving every other
-            // peer. The transport already acknowledged the frame, so the peer's session cannot be kept
-            // (a retransmit would never be handled). It ends, the peer is told, and the drop is counted
-            // and logged, as cultmesh-py's server does. A handler is still expected to answer its own
-            // typed refusals on the wire (HandleSnapshotRequestV1Async does, R-AM); this is the backstop
-            // for whatever it does not. The log names the fault's type only: its message can quote
-            // what the peer sent.
+            // handled ends that peer's session, never the poll: the drain goes on serving every other
+            // peer. The transport already acknowledged the frame, so the session cannot be kept (a
+            // retransmit would never be handled). The peer is told, and the drop is counted and logged.
+            // The C# TCP schema server (CultNetTcpSchemaTransport.ServePeerAsync) likewise ends the one
+            // peer whose message fails to decode or handle. A handler is still expected to answer its
+            // own typed refusals on the wire (HandleSnapshotRequestV1Async does, R-AM); this is the
+            // backstop for whatever it does not. The log names the fault's type only: its message can
+            // quote what the peer sent.
+            ICultNetSchemaMessage message;
             try
             {
-                var message = CultNetSchemaMessageSerialization.Deserialize(delivered.Frame.Payload);
-                if (!_handlers.TryGetValue(message.GetType(), out var handler) || handler == null)
-                {
-                    return false;
-                }
+                message = CultNetSchemaMessageSerialization.Deserialize(delivered.Frame.Payload);
+            }
+            catch (Exception ex)
+            {
+                // The peer sent something no runtime can read: the refusal is the peer's.
+                var ended = _transport.EndPeerSession(delivered.Peer, CultNetRudpSession.RefusedPacketReason);
+                Logger.LogError($"CultNet RUDP schema server could not decode a peer's message ({ex.GetType().Name}); {SessionOutcome(ended)}");
+                return false;
+            }
 
+            if (!_handlers.TryGetValue(message.GetType(), out var handler) || handler == null)
+            {
+                return false;
+            }
+
+            try
+            {
                 var result = handler.DynamicInvoke(message, new RudpCultNetSchemaServerPeer(this, delivered.Peer));
                 if (result is Task task)
                 {
@@ -313,10 +339,13 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking
             catch (Exception ex)
             {
                 // DynamicInvoke wraps a synchronously-thrown handler fault in TargetInvocationException;
-                // name the real fault, not that wrapper.
+                // name the real fault, not that wrapper. The fault is the server's (a response too large
+                // to send, a handler bug) or a refusal the handler did not type, so the goodbye does not
+                // say the peer's packet was refused. A response that failed after its first fragment
+                // already ended the session over the send, and the log says so.
                 var reported = ex is System.Reflection.TargetInvocationException { InnerException: { } inner } ? inner : ex;
-                Logger.LogError($"CultNet RUDP schema server could not decode or handle a peer's message ({reported.GetType().Name}); that peer's session ended.");
-                _transport.EndRefusedPeer(delivered.Peer);
+                var ended = _transport.EndPeerSession(delivered.Peer, HandlerFailedReason);
+                Logger.LogError($"CultNet RUDP schema server's {message.GetType().Name} handler failed ({reported.GetType().Name}); {SessionOutcome(ended)}");
                 return false;
             }
             return true;
diff --git a/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetTransport.cs b/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetTransport.cs
index dd8f3992..a6102de3 100644
--- a/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetTransport.cs
+++ b/src/GameCult.Networking/CultNetTransport.cs
@@ -1462,10 +1462,17 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking
         /// sequence, so the peer's sequences are forgotten before the goodbye is built: its ack field
         /// would otherwise acknowledge the very frame the session refused.
         /// </summary>
-        internal CultNetRudpPacket EndRefused()
+        internal CultNetRudpPacket EndRefused() => EndWith(RefusedPacketReason);
+
+        /// <summary>
+        /// Ends a session whose peer's frame the application above it refused or failed on, after the
+        /// session acknowledged it. As with <see cref="EndRefused"/>, the peer's sequences are forgotten
+        /// before the goodbye is built.
+        /// </summary>
+        internal CultNetRudpPacket EndWith(byte[] reason)
         {
             ResetPeerState();
-            return CreateDisconnect(RefusedPacketReason);
+            return CreateDisconnect(reason);
         }
 
         /// <summary>
@@ -3191,19 +3198,21 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking
         }
 
         // Polling thread only. Ends the session of a peer whose delivered frame the application could not
-        // decode or handle. The frame is already acknowledged, so the session cannot be kept: a
-        // retransmit would never be handled. The peer is told, the drop is counted, and the peer's
-        // frames still queued are not delivered. A session that already ended (a new Connect replaced
-        // it, or a send failure ended it) owes no goodbye; the endpoint may belong to a new session.
-        internal void EndRefusedPeer(CultNetRudpSocketServerPeer peer)
+        // decode or handle, with a goodbye carrying the application's reason. The frame is already
+        // acknowledged, so the session cannot be kept: a retransmit would never be handled. The peer
+        // is told, the drop is counted, and the peer's frames still queued are not delivered. A
+        // session that already ended (a new Connect replaced it, or a send failure ended it) owes no
+        // goodbye, since the endpoint may belong to a new session; the call then returns false.
+        internal bool EndPeerSession(CultNetRudpSocketServerPeer peer, byte[] reason)
         {
             if (peer == null) throw new ArgumentNullException(nameof(peer));
+            if (reason == null) throw new ArgumentNullException(nameof(reason));
             _stats.PacketsDropped++;
             lock (peer.SessionGate)
             {
                 if (peer.Session.Ended)
-                    return;
-                SendPacket(peer.RemoteEndPoint, peer.Session.EndRefused());
+                    return false;
+                SendPacket(peer.RemoteEndPoint, peer.Session.EndWith(reason));
             }
 
             var kept = _deliveredFrames.Where(frame => !ReferenceEquals(frame.Peer, peer)).ToArray();
@@ -3213,10 +3222,11 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking
 
             var key = RemoteKey(peer.RemoteEndPoint);
             if (!_peers.TryGetValue(key, out var current) || !ReferenceEquals(current, peer))
-                return;
+                return true;
             _peers.Remove(key);
-            peer.DisconnectReason = CultNetRudpSession.RefusedPacketReason;
+            peer.DisconnectReason = reason;
             PeerDisconnected?.Invoke(peer);
+            return true;
         }
 
         // Polling thread only. A peer a new Connect already replaced was reported then, and its key now
diff --git a/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSchemaServerPeerInputTests.cs b/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSchemaServerPeerInputTests.cs
index 74fc1d67..b8de674f 100644
--- a/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSchemaServerPeerInputTests.cs
+++ b/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSchemaServerPeerInputTests.cs
@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@ using System.Collections.Generic;
 using System.Linq;
 using System.Net;
 using System.Net.Sockets;
+using System.Text;
 using System.Threading.Tasks;
 using GameCult.Logging;
 using MessagePack;
@@ -179,6 +180,102 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking.Tests
             Assert.That(scene.Logger.Errors, Has.Count.EqualTo(1));
         }
 
+        // The peer's malformed message and a well-formed one after it arrive in one datagram's
+        // delivery: the second is held for order, and both are released together. The session ends
+        // on the first, so the second belongs to no session and is never handled.
+        [Test]
+        public async Task ARefusedPeersFramesStillQueuedAreNotHandled()
+        {
+            var logger = new CapturingLogger();
+            using var server = new RudpCultNetSchemaServer(new RudpCultNetSchemaServerOptions
+            {
+                RuntimeId = "csharp-peer-input",
+                ConnectionId = ConnectionId
+            });
+            server.Logger = logger;
+            var served = new List<string>();
+            server.OnCultNet<CultNetShardCatalogRequestMessage>((message, _) => served.Add(message.MessageId));
+            var bad = await Connect(server);
+            var options = new CultNetRudpSendOptions { Reliable = true, Ordered = true };
+            var malformed = bad.Session.Send("schema", Malformed(), options);
+            var after = bad.Session.Send("schema", CultNetSchemaMessageSerialization.Serialize(
+                new CultNetShardCatalogRequestMessage { MessageId = "after-the-refused-one" }), options);
+            bad.Socket.SendTo(CultNetRudpPacketCodec.Encode(after), server.LocalEndPoint);
+            bad.Socket.SendTo(CultNetRudpPacketCodec.Encode(malformed), server.LocalEndPoint);
+
+            await server.PollAvailableAsync(16);
+
+            Assert.That(served, Is.Empty);
+            Assert.That(server.Peers, Is.Empty);
+            Assert.That(logger.Errors, Has.Count.EqualTo(1));
+            bad.Socket.Dispose();
+        }
+
+        private static async Task<(RudpCultNetSchemaServer Server, Client Client, CapturingLogger Logger)> ServerWhoseHandlerAnswers(
+            byte[] response, int? maxFragmentBytes, int? unsendableAfter = null)
+        {
+            var logger = new CapturingLogger();
+            var server = new RudpCultNetSchemaServer(new RudpCultNetSchemaServerOptions
+            {
+                RuntimeId = "csharp-peer-input",
+                ConnectionId = ConnectionId,
+                MaxFragmentBytes = maxFragmentBytes
+            });
+            server.Logger = logger;
+            server.OnCultNet<CultNetShardCatalogRequestMessage>((_, peer) =>
+            {
+                if (unsendableAfter is { } count)
+                    server.Transport.UnsendableAfter[peer.RemoteEndPoint] = count;
+                server.Transport.SendSchema(peer.TransportPeer, response);
+            });
+            var client = await Connect(server);
+            SendSchema(server, client, CultNetSchemaMessageSerialization.Serialize(
+                new CultNetShardCatalogRequestMessage { MessageId = "ask" }));
+            return (server, client, logger);
+        }
+
+        // A handler whose own response can never be sent (larger than a datagram, unfragmented) fails
+        // on the server's account, not the peer's. The session still ends, but its goodbye does not say
+        // the peer's packet was refused.
+        [Test]
+        public async Task AHandlerFaultEndsTheSessionWithAReasonThatDoesNotBlameThePeer()
+        {
+            var (server, client, logger) = await ServerWhoseHandlerAnswers(new byte[70_000], maxFragmentBytes: null);
+            using (server)
+            {
+                await server.PollAvailableAsync(16);
+
+                var goodbye = Drain(client.Socket).Single(packet => packet.PacketType == CultNetRudpPacketType.Disconnect);
+                Assert.That(Encoding.UTF8.GetString(goodbye.Payload!), Is.EqualTo("server could not handle a message"));
+                Assert.That(server.Peers, Is.Empty);
+                Assert.That(logger.Errors, Has.Count.EqualTo(1));
+                Assert.That(logger.Errors[0], Does.Contain("handler failed (SocketException)"));
+                Assert.That(logger.Errors[0], Does.Contain("that peer's session ended."));
+            }
+            client.Socket.Dispose();
+        }
+
+        // A response that fails after its first fragment has already ended the session over the send,
+        // with a goodbye that names the send failure. The backstop ends nothing more and says so.
+        [Test]
+        public async Task AHandlerWhoseResponseEndedTheSessionIsLoggedAsAlreadyEnded()
+        {
+            var (server, client, logger) = await ServerWhoseHandlerAnswers(new byte[3000], maxFragmentBytes: 1000, unsendableAfter: 1);
+            using (server)
+            {
+                await server.PollAvailableAsync(16);
+                await server.PollAvailableAsync(16);
+
+                var goodbyes = Drain(client.Socket).Where(packet => packet.PacketType == CultNetRudpPacketType.Disconnect).ToList();
+                Assert.That(goodbyes, Has.Count.EqualTo(1));
+                Assert.That(Encoding.UTF8.GetString(goodbyes[0].Payload!), Does.StartWith("packet could not be sent: "));
+                Assert.That(server.Peers, Is.Empty);
+                Assert.That(logger.Errors, Has.Count.EqualTo(1));
+                Assert.That(logger.Errors[0], Does.Contain("that peer's session had already ended."));
+            }
+            client.Socket.Dispose();
+        }
+
         [Test]
         public async Task TheDropIsLoggedByErrorTypeWithoutEchoingWhatThePeerSent()
         {
diff --git a/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSendFailureTests.cs b/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSendFailureTests.cs
index 7b327c02..81d255f7 100644
--- a/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSendFailureTests.cs
+++ b/tests/GameCult.Networking.Tests/CultNetRudpSendFailureTests.cs
@@ -430,6 +430,28 @@ namespace GameCult.Networking.Tests
             }
         }
 
+        // An application ending a peer's session (a message it could not decode or handle) says no
+        // goodbye to a session that already ended: a new Connect replaced it, and the endpoint now
+        // belongs to the session that replaced it.
+        [Test]
+        public void EndingAReplacedPeersSessionSaysNoGoodbyeToTheSessionThatReplacedIt()
+        {
+            var (server, listenerEndPoint, x, _) = TwoPeers();
+            using (server)
+            {
+                var (stale, replacing) = Reconnect(server, listenerEndPoint, x);
+                var ended = RecordDisconnects(server);
+
+                Assert.That(server.EndPeerSession(stale, Encoding.UTF8.GetBytes("application reason")), Is.False);
+
+                Assert.That(Drain(x.Socket).Select(p => p.PacketType), Has.None.EqualTo(CultNetRudpPacketType.Disconnect));
+                Assert.That(x.Session.Connected, Is.True);
+                Assert.That(replacing.Connected, Is.True);
+                Assert.That(server.Peers, Has.Member(replacing));
+                Assert.That(ended, Is.Empty);
+            }
+        }
+
         [Test]
         public void ASessionEndedByACallerAndThePollingThreadTogetherSaysGoodbyeOnce()
         {